We woke up to rain on the roof which thrilled Robert and I that maybe--just maybe- our crops can be saved! Please pray that the rains continue as the crops have been shriveling up for weeks now. ); It is so heavy to live through this kind of heat with the understanding that all of our work may end up in no crop to sell.
On the bright side, we had a wonderful baby shower on Saturday!! Friends came and our neighborhood ladies all brought some food to share! It reminded me of how much can be done when people work in unity.
It was marvelous how the ladies converted my home into a dreamy place. I'll see if I can figure out how to get photos from my phone to my computer! You know what a techie I am NOT!
My daughter and her 6 children traveled here from MN. Her husband wasn't able to get away from the farm so her mother-in-law drove her here. It's a long journey for little people but they have a new/used 8 passenger mini-van complete with DVD players. ;)
I loved this devotional this morning. In my weakness, the Lord still used my home to be a haven for family and a special party gathering place for the shower. Everyone helped and everyone rejoiced in making happy family/community memories together!
Bummer. I'm not getting pictures to transfer but I'll keep trying.
Much love to all of you praying friends out there!
Dawn
I Hear His Whisper...
Search for me.
To love me with all of your heart means to bow before my glory. Many sing the songs of my glory, but when I bring the fullness of my presence to you, it requires you to bow before me in sacred reverence. I dwell in light unapproachable. I am transcendent—different from anything you have known on this earth. Search for me, and you will learn what it means to fear the Lord.
Live in the awareness of my omnipotence and majesty. Know me as Savior and Friend, but humbly yield to me as the King of kings and the Lord of lords. As you live out of the place of awe and reverence, I beckon you closer. I purify you and make you more like me. Remember that I have called you to be a vessel of my holy presence. My great Spirit dwells within you. To fear me doesn’t mean you stand far off, eyes averted, heart pounding, with the awareness of your sin screaming for its punishment. Instead, humble fear of me reminds you of the power of my love, extended in mercy—not pushing you away, but pulling you close.
After this, the church all over Judea, Galilee, and Samaria experienced a season of peace. The congregations grew larger and larger, with the believers being empowered and encouraged by the Holy Spirit. They worshiped God in wonder and awe, and walked in the fear of the Lord.
I realize that this post will probably not apply to most of you. That's ok. Perhaps you know someone that this information will help as they prepare to host a baby shower as I am.
This Saturday about 30 women and girls will gather at my house. My daughter-in-law, after having FOUR SONS, is having a daughter! YAY She has absolutely nothing pink so we decided to help her a little to prepare for A GIRL!!!
I am thrilled because my daughter and her family are making the long trip in order to be able to attend! YAY. My future daughter-in-law is living here (across the road in the shop office) and so she will get to meet many of our family friends.
I am greatly relieved that the expectant mother has done a lot of the work in organizing this happy event!!!!! She is SOOO happy to be getting a daughter soon! It helps a lot when you know how someone would like things to be done so I rejoice that she has planned the decorations......
As you may recall, our neighborhood ladies meet twice a month. We have "Serious tea" which means we hold a Bible study every month. Then we have a regular tea party too. These are the highlights of my month!
All of us ladies are really hosting the baby shower. Several are bringing food and others are helping with games and decorations. It's so nice to be a part of a caring group!
My job is to provide a clean house which is easier said than done. Since the intense MS flareup last month, I'm still hobbling around on crutches. Everything takes soooo long! If you feel led to pray for me as I prepare for my guests, I would be extremely grateful.
I'd best get back to it. Oh, did I mention that my daughter is coming with 8 people all of whom will be staying with us? Also, please pray that Robert can get the air conditioner working better. It about half works now and, with that many people in the house, I've got a feeling that half working will not be enough especially in this crazy heat.
Thanks again for all of your prayers for me and my family!
Dawn
How to Plan a Beautiful Baby Shower on a Budget
Budget shouldn’t be the thing that overshadows the joy of celebrating a new baby. Most parents know the truth already: life is about to get wonderfully full—and a little expensive—so throwing a shower that feels warm, thoughtful, and deeply personal matters far more than centerpieces or professionally styled dessert tables. When you plan a baby shower on a budget, you’re really choosing intention over excess. You’re focusing on the connections in the room, the stories shared, the tiny socks passed around, the laughter that comes from the simplest games.
A beautiful shower doesn’t come from spending hundreds of dollars; it comes from creativity, community, and a few smart decisions. Whether you’re hosting in your living room, pulling together a cozy brunch menu, or leaning on a friend’s backyard for a sunny afternoon gathering, you can create something stunning without straining your wallet. With a little planning and the right tools—plus thoughtful touches like meaningful favors, fun games, and affordable décor—you can craft a celebration that feels every bit as special as the moment you’re honoring. And the best part? Guests feel the intention behind every choice in a way money can’t replicate.
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Start With Realistic Expectations (and a Game Plan)
When you plan a baby shower on a budget, the real secret isn’t cutting everything—it’s choosing what matters most. A beautiful celebration doesn’t require a designer venue or elaborate catering. It starts with a grounded plan that reflects the mom-to-be’s personality and the atmosphere she actually wants. Think cozy, intentional, and meaningful instead of expensive or over-produced.
Know the Guest of Honor’s Priorities
Before anything else, talk with the mom-to-be about what she imagines. Does she love the idea of a simple brunch? A dessert table? Something outdoors and relaxed? Getting clear on one vision helps avoid impulse purchases and keeps spending focused. If she’s overwhelmed or expecting long-distance guests, consider whether elements from a virtual-style shower could simplify the event and trim costs.
Build your budget around the essentials: food, décor, venue, games, and favors. Once you know what her non-negotiables are, everything else can flex.
Set Your Budget (And Stick to It Without Feeling Deprived)
A smart way to plan a baby shower on a budget is to “reverse-plan”: choose your total number, subtract the must-haves, and divide the rest into categories. It instantly shows where to splurge and where to save.
Small shifts create big wins—homemade treats instead of catering, a free venue instead of a rental, or a potluck-style menu that keeps the atmosphere communal and fun. A few well-chosen items can stretch your budget further, like budget-friendly party plates, simple fabric table runners, and bulk balloons that make DIY décor surprisingly polished.
Choose the Perfect Low-Cost Venue
One of the easiest ways to plan a baby shower on a budget is choosing a venue that doesn’t take a huge bite out of your spending. Big price tags don’t guarantee a memorable celebration—warmth, comfort, and intention do. A cozy living room, a sunlit backyard, or even a shaded park pavilion can feel just as special as a rented hall. If you need inspiration for different spaces and aesthetics, take a peek at these cute baby shower venue ideas that show just how magical low-cost locations can be.
Budget-friendly venue ideas:
Host at home for a warm, intimate atmosphere
A friend’s backyard for spacious, free outdoor charm
Local parks or picnic shelters (usually $25–$50)
Community rooms or church halls for low flat fees
Cafés during off-hours, which often offer low-cost reservations
Keep the mom-to-be’s comfort front and center—easy seating, nearby bathrooms, and weather backup plans matter more than extra square footage. When you build your venue decision around practicality instead of perfection, the rest of your budget stretches much farther.
Save Big on Invitations + Guest List
Invitations and guest lists are often where hidden costs sneak in, but they don’t have to. When you plan a baby shower on a budget, the goal is to keep things meaningful—not massive. A smaller guest list naturally trims food, favors, and décor costs while creating a more connected, heartfelt atmosphere for the mom-to-be.
Keep the Guest List Meaningful
The most budget-friendly showers focus on the people who matter most. Let relationships guide the list instead of obligation. This is where “quality over quantity” pays off—not just financially, but emotionally. If you need a refresher on who typically gets invited, this gentle breakdown on who to invite to a baby shower can help simplify the decision-making.
A smaller group also helps the host stay relaxed, reduces food prep, and fosters deeper connection. It’s social, but not overwhelming.
Digital Invitations Are Chic Now
You can skip the pricey printed invitations without sacrificing style. Digital invites have become the norm—and they’re beautiful, customizable, and often under $10. Canva templates, Etsy printables, or even elegant email-based invitations make the process effortless and budget-friendly.
Pair these with a cohesive color palette and warm messaging, and you’ll set the tone for the celebration without overspending. Digital invitations keep things modern, eco-friendly, and perfectly aligned with the goal to plan a baby shower on a budget.
Budget-Friendly Baby Shower Food That Still Feels Special
Food is where gatherings come alive, but it’s also where costs can skyrocket fast. When you plan a baby shower on a budget, simplicity becomes your superpower. A thoughtful, well-curated menu—built around homemade favorites, seasonal ingredients, and a few store-bought shortcuts—can feel just as indulgent as catered spreads. Think cozy brunch bites, a dessert-forward table, or a light lunch that doesn’t require hours in the kitchen. Guests remember flavors, not price tags.
Choose a Simple, Stunning Menu Theme
A cohesive theme keeps planning easy and helps you avoid buying “a little bit of everything.” Try a morning shower with pastries and fruit, a dessert table with cupcakes and cookies, or a soup-and-salad pairing for something comforting and affordable. If you need inspiration or reliable recipes to anchor your menu, trusted home-cooking hubs like Food Network, Taste of Home, and AllRecipes offer endless options that fit any budget or skill level.
Pastry + Coffee brunch (easy, cozy, low prep)
Sweet & Simple dessert bar (cupcakes, bars, fruit, candies)
Soup + Salad midday shower
DIY sandwich or croissant board
Potluck Style — But Make It Polished
Inviting close friends or family to contribute one dish keeps the overall cost low while creating a communal, love-filled vibe. You’re not “asking for help”—you’re inviting them to be part of something special. The host can assemble the finishing touches: fruit platters, snack boards, or a simple cupcake stand.
A few well-chosen serving pieces elevate the entire spread without a big investment. Consider staples like a tiered serving tray, white porcelain platters, and a simple cake stand that you can reuse for future parties, holidays, or even milestone birthdays.
Decor That Looks Luxe — For Less
You don’t need a professional designer—or a professional budget—to create a beautiful atmosphere. When you plan a baby shower on a budget, focus on décor that delivers high impact with minimal spending. One statement area, cohesive colors, and a few smart DIY touches can transform even the simplest space into something warm and celebratory. A unified palette does more visual work than themed props or expensive rentals, and it keeps every choice feeling intentional. Think soft neutrals, gentle pastels, or a modern monochrome look depending on the mom-to-be’s style.Focus on High-Impact, Low-Cost Decor
Choose one “moment” wall—by the cake table, behind the gift area, or near the entrance—to anchor the entire look. This is where a small investment pays off big. A DIY balloon garland, a fabric backdrop, or a simple greenery swag brings polish without major cost. If you want ideas or tutorials, this guide to making your own baby shower balloon arch shows just how affordable stunning décor can be.
Keep lighting warm—string lights or tealights add instant softness
Rely on repetition: 3–5 of the same décor item creates visual harmony
Dollar Store + Amazon Decor Hacks
Stretch your décor budget by mixing dollar-store finds with a few reliable Amazon staples. Affordable balloon strips, simple greenery, and neutral table pieces can be reused for future birthdays, showers, or holidays. For a deeper list of finds, these dollar store baby shower ideas to inspire your party are worth a browse before you shop.
By keeping décor simple, cohesive, and driven by just a few intentional choices, you’ll save money while making the whole celebration feel beautifully curated.
Games, Activities, and Entertainment (Without Spending a Fortune)
Entertainment doesn’t have to come with a big price tag. When you plan a baby shower on a budget, the best approach is choosing games and activities that feel fun, interactive, and meaningful without requiring expensive supplies. A few clever printables, simple guessing games, or DIY crafts can fill the room with laughter just as well as paid entertainment.
Guests remember the moments they shared—who guessed the baby’s birthday, who won bingo, who couldn’t stop laughing during the trivia—not how much the host spent. If you want a larger list to pull from, the ideas in this roundup of fun baby shower games are easy to adapt and incredibly budget-friendly.
Free or Nearly-Free Games
Baby Bingo — Print bingo cards, hand out pens, and let the fun begin.
“Guess the Due Date” Calendar — A single printable and a few sticky notes make this a winner.
Mom or Dad Trivia — Personal, sweet, and guaranteed to get people talking.
Advice Cards — Heartfelt notes the mom-to-be will cherish.
Onesie Decorating — Affordable and adorable with just plain onesies and fabric markers.
If you want an easy craft-style activity, set out plain white onesies and let guests design a keepsake for the baby. Simple supplies like fabric markers, mini clothespins, and printable game card packs make the entire activity affordable and polished.
Entertainment doesn’t need to be elaborate. With the right mix of playful activities and heartfelt moments, your shower will feel lively, warm, and wonderfully low-stress.
Affordable Baby Shower Cakes + Sweets
Desserts are the visual heart of most showers, but they don’t need to drain the budget. When you plan a baby shower on a budget, think simple, sweet, and homemade-adjacent. A grocery store cake with a little DIY styling, a cupcake tower, or a single signature dessert can feel every bit as special as a custom order.
If you need design inspiration—colors, styles, modern trends—this collection of adorable baby shower cake ideas is packed with looks you can recreate affordably.
Budget-Friendly Dessert Ideas
Grocery store sheet cake glow-up — Add fresh flowers, sprinkles, or a themed cake topper.
DIY cupcake tower — Easy, cute, and far cheaper than tiered cakes.
Dessert sampler table — Bars, cookies, fruit, and candies give variety without much cost.
Single specialty dessert — One standout item plus simple sides keeps things elegant.
If you’re assembling a dessert table, a few stylish yet inexpensive tools can elevate the whole display. A cupcake stand, white cake pedestal, or set of serving tongs gives everything a polished, intentional feel without adding unnecessary spend.
Whether you choose store-bought, homemade, or a mix of both, remember: guests won’t know the price tag. They’ll remember how sweet, cozy, and celebratory the table felt.
Meaningful Favors Guests Will Actually Use (Without Overspending)
Favors don’t need to be elaborate or expensive to feel thoughtful. When you plan a baby shower on a budget, focus on small, practical items that guests will genuinely enjoy. A simple, well-presented favor feels far more special than something pricey but generic.
Think cozy, useful, and easy to personalize. If you need ideas that balance charm and affordability, this gentle guide to baby shower favors offers inspiration that works for nearly any shower style.
Affordable Favor Ideas That Feel High-End
Mini candles — Tie with ribbon and a sweet tag.
Individually wrapped cookies — Delicious and universally loved.
DIY bath salts — Easy, relaxing, and beautiful in small jars.
Small succulents or plants — Charming décor guests can take home.
Bookmarks — Add a quote or sweet message for a personal touch.
You can elevate even the simplest favors with a few low-cost supplies. Try mini gift jars, favor stickers, or bulk ribbon to create polished, cohesive bundles without overspending.
Favors should feel sentimental, not obligatory. When you choose items with purpose and present them thoughtfully, guests notice the care—not the cost.
Pulling It All Together: A Sample $150–$250 Baby Shower Plan
Once you see the numbers laid out, it becomes clear how easy it is to plan a baby shower on a budget without losing any of the beauty or sentiment. The key is combining thoughtful choices, simple décor, and a menu that feels abundant without being expensive. Here’s a realistic example that hosts rely on all the time.
Venue: $0 Host at home, in a friend’s backyard, or at a local park. Free venues instantly cut the biggest cost most showers carry.
Invitations: $8 A digital Canva or Etsy template that matches your color palette and theme.
Food: $60–$120 A simple brunch spread, a dessert table, or a soup-and-salad setup. Add one homemade anchor dish and a few store-bought sides to round it out.
Decor: $30–$45 DIY balloon garland, greenery, mason jars, and soft lighting go a long way. Focus on one statement area rather than decorating the entire room.
Games & Activities: $0–$15 Free printable games, trivia, or a simple craft like onesie decorating.
Favors: $20–$40 Mini candles, cookies, or small plant favors dressed up with labels and ribbon.
Cake or Sweets: $15–$30 A grocery store cake glow-up, a batch of cupcakes, or a single special dessert.
With intentional choices and a clear plan, a $150–$250 shower feels warm, polished, and deeply personal—proof that a meaningful celebration has nothing to do with how much you spend. When you plan a baby shower on a budget, you’re choosing creativity and connection over excess, and that’s exactly what makes the day unforgettable.
You are my own, brought into oneness with me through the blood of Jesus. Nothing could have kept you from my lavish love, for it has been pursuing you since you were formed in your mother’s womb. No power on earth or anywhere else can keep you from living in the purity of your purpose. All chains of sin and death were broken when Christ raised up in resurrection power. You are free in mercy, my child. You are alive in me, so rejoice in your freedom!
My power has left no sin-cycle untouched. Love has liberated you. So where there are echoes of captivity, surrender to my powerful mercy. Watch! I will wash away the remnants of shame as you walk in the light of my life. Align your life with mine, letting go of everything that would hinder love’s call, and run in the radiance of my glory. With uninterrupted connection, live with your heart open to my voice and to my leading. I will never let you go or let you down. Even if you find yourself on an old, worn-out path that leads to darkness, I will guide you back to liberty again.
This “realm of death” describes our former state, for we were held in sin’s grasp. But now, we’ve been resurrected out of that “realm of death” never to return, for we are forever alive and forgiven of all our sins!
I've been a farmer all my life. My dad was a farmer. I married a farmer. Both of my sons are farmers and my daughter married a farmer.
In the Spring we plant with joy. All Summer we watch the crops grow. If the rains come, the crops keep growing and we get to harvest them. If the rains stop, the crops wither and we harvest far less OR nothing.
Things were looking really good up until a couple of weeks ago when the rains stopped. Now the crops are going backwards!
PLEASE pray for God to send us rains to keep our crops growing. How can I thank you? I guess I'll thank you when we're together in Heaven.
I'm sure you can see the crops soaking up the rain in the top picture. That's what I'm believing God can do for us and our neighbors.
5 financial mistakes in marriages and how to avoid them
Money talks in relationships can stir up stress, but you deserve conversations that feel calm and supportive. When you understand the five common mistakes couples run into, you can protect your relationship from unnecessary tension. This guide breaks everything down in plain language so you feel confident and ready to build healthier habits together.
5 money mistakes couples face and how to avoid them
Money disagreements can feel emotional, and it’s common for you to worry about misunderstandings or hidden stress. These issues often start small but grow when communication breaks down. The biggest problems come from lack of transparency, uneven money roles, and never defining shared expectations. When you learn how these patterns form, you can replace confusion with clarity. You’ll see how open conversations and shared visibility help you build trust and protect your long‑term goals.
Couples often struggle because conversations about income, bills, or goals feel uncomfortable. A simple misunderstanding can snowball when no one checks in early.
Common friction points include unspoken expectations about spending, savings, or long‑term plans.
Many couples avoid financial talks due to fear of conflict.
💡 Pro tip: Short, regular check‑ins reduce stress because both partners stay updated.
Issue type
How it shows up
Emotional impact
Unclear spending
One assumes limits, the other doesn’t
Frustration or blame
Unshared goals
Each moves toward different priorities
Feeling unsupported
Irregular check‑ins
No shared picture of money
Anxiety or surprise
✅ Key takeaway: Communication strengthens teamwork and prevents small misunderstandings from turning into bigger problems.
Building your shared money approach
This short set of questions helps tailor guidance to your situation as a couple. You’ll see questions about your goal details (what you’re hoping to improve together), your current money snapshot (income ranges, debt, and savings), what you can put toward joint plans, and your experience with financial decisions or past investing. Approximate ranges are completely fine — simple, honest answers help make the recommendations more useful. Ready to begin? 🚀
💰 What’s your approximate monthly income after taxes?
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Choose the range that best matches your typical take‑home pay.
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Secrecy creates uncertainty and breaks trust, even when the hidden issue seems minor. When one partner withholds information, the other may worry about the full picture. Sharing details openly makes decisions easier and strengthens the relationship.
It can create blind spots because the non‑involved partner may not notice signs of trouble. This also increases stress during emergencies when both partners need access or awareness. Shared visibility helps both feel informed and secure.
Beliefs about saving or spending usually come from childhood or past experiences. Without discussing these differences, partners may assume their approach is the “normal” one. Talking openly creates understanding and reduces repeated disagreements.
Not necessarily. Couples can be successful with separate, joint, or hybrid structures as long as expectations are clear. The healthiest systems prioritize transparency and ongoing communication.
