Tuesday, March 12, 2024

I Have THAT problem?????

  Recently I was asked to lead our neighborhood ladies' Bible study.  I prayed for over a

week about what to share with the ladies and was led to this idea that we all have blind spots in our lives that may be harming ourselves and/or those we love.  When I found this article, I knew that it was what I am to share.  

  I pray that this blesses those of you who truly want to do better at serving the Lord.  If you just don't feel close to Him, but want to walk in greater intimacy with your Creator, this article may have the answer you're looking for.
  
  I'm not sure why my computer is messing with the spacing here but I'll share this anyway.  I hope that it's not too hard to read!!

  Sending love,

  Dawn

How to See Your Blind Spots

Can you identify your blind spots? We all have them, and they can be SO hard to see.

Prefer to watch/listen? Here’s the podcast version of this post.

Our blind spots can take different forms. Blind spots may be spiritual and block our relationship with God. They may be relational and block our relationships with others. They could also be physical and block health and wellness. These spots can be hard to see, but they wreak a lot of havoc.

Yet you can have hope: Whatever type of blind spot you have, God will help you remove it.

I discovered a relational blind spot in my own life this week. I’m training to be a Stephen Minister in my church, and yesterday I was reading the material for the week. One of the sentences jumped off the page and seemed to shout truth to me. Let’s just say that I’ve been trying to “fix” a relationship rather than patiently waiting for God to work in this person’s heart and mind.

Through that single sentence, God opened my eyes to a big blind spot. He gently reminded me to “be still and know” that he is God over this situation (Psalm 46:10). I need to surrender to him daily and trust him with the outcome instead of attempting to manufacture it myself.

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An Example of a Blind Spot

The Bible gives us several examples of people with blind spots. The example I want to show you today is the apostle Paul. When he was still called Saul, he was a terrorist who targeted early Christ-followers. His blind spot was religious zeal, taken to the extreme. This blind spot was a giant barrier to the life God wanted him to live.

While Saul was walking on the road to Damascus with his cohorts to arrest more followers of Jesus. Saul had been walking in spiritual blindness for a long time, but on the Damascus road, God struck him with literal blindness after an encounter with Jesus himself. You can read the full account in Acts 9 HERE.

Saul’s literal blindness lasted for three days. Then God sent Ananias to Saul. Ananias prayed over Saul, telling him that God wanted to fill him with the Holy Spirit. At that moment…

Instantly something like scales fell from Saul’s eyes, and he regained his sight. Then he got up and was baptized. 
Acts 9:18 NLT

Soon after Saul’s healing from spiritual blindness, he stepped into the calling God had prepared for him. We still benefit from Saul’s transformation into the apostle Paul. His letters make up the majority of the New Testament, and they have blessed millions upon millions of Christians in the past 2000 years. Since God removed his blind spot, we have all reaped great benefits in our spiritual lives!

How to See Your Blind Spots

Lessons About Blind Spots

We can learn several lessons about our own blind spots from this reading. Let’s break them down.

1. Saul’s spiritual blindness was fueled by sincerity. He truly believed he was doing the right thing for God’s kingdom by weeding out followers of the Way. Often, our blind spots are also connected to misguided intentions. Examples include a nagging wife or a hovering parent who needs to let go. Our actions may actually be doing more harm than good.

2. Saul needed God’s help to see his blind spot. Only God has the power to remove a blind spot from someone’s life. When we see our own blind spots, we must also rely on God’s help to overcome them, because in our own strength we will fail. When we see blind spots in others, we have to trust God to remove them instead of trying to fix the person with the problem.

3. Saul needed another person to help him recover. Ananias approached Saul only because God directed him to do so. He said exactly what needed to be said so that Saul would gain the insight to move forward. Ananias affirmed the calling God had created for Saul in a loving, caring way that required much faith and tact. We often need others to help us see our blind spots. You can read a powerful account of how Nathan served David like this in 2 Samuel 12.

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How to Handle Your Own Blind Spots

How can you discover your own blind spots and live the life God intends for you? Here are several tips:

1. Pray that God will show you your blind spots. You can turn these scriptures into daily prayers to invite God into conversation with you on spiritual and personal growth. Psalm 26:2Psalm 139:232 Corinthians 13:5. Humbly accept God’s correction when he shows you your blind spots.

2. Pray that God will completely remove your blind spots with his great power and his loving kindness. Ask him to give you the mind of Christ (1 Corinthians 2:15-16) as you depend on him to help you overcome. Open your heart and mind to Christian books, podcasts, sermons and songs that the Holy Spirit may use to reveal further areas of blindness.

3. Ask trusted family members or friends to point out your blind spots. Promise that if they are honest with you, you will not get defensive or angry, but you will work on that area with God’s help. Meditate on this proverb for help. Consider asking that person to hold you accountable on a weekly or monthly basis as you work to eliminate the blind spot.

4. Celebrate small progresses and praise God for conforming you to the likeness of his Son. If you take a step backward, don’t beat yourself up. Simply get up again and walk in the light instead of the darkness (John 8:12), now that you are aware of the problem. Remember that when you cooperate with God in removing that blind spot, you will have fewer roadblocks in your faith journey, and many others will benefit!

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Prayer

Here’s a prayer to encourage you:

Heavenly Father,
In you there is no darkness; there is only light.
I confess to you that certain areas of my life are hidden in darkness.
I am blind to the ways that these areas are hurting my relationship with you, myself and others.
Remove the scales from my heart, mind and eyes, Lord.
I don’t want to walk in darkness any longer.
Use whatever it takes to completely eliminate blind spots from my faith journey.
Thank you that I can become more like your Son every day through the power of the Holy Spirit.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

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Wednesday, March 6, 2024

It DOES what she says it does!

 Hi everyone,

As I've stated here many times, my body has MS and has for over 30 years.  I've also stated that I have tried countless products to try to get my nerves to heal.  Still I live in pain nearly constantly.

Recently the Lord showed me this video.   Cocolasses Nutrient Rich Dark Cocoa (thedrardisshow.com)

This changes EVERYTHING.  The woman in that episode of the Dr. Ardis show had MS.  Now, nobody is every rid of MS once there's been that kind of nerve damage.  However, she hasn't had any MS symptoms for over a decade so she says that she HAD MS.

So I read about Cocolasses and felt led to give it a try because it is rich in minerals.  Also the product is fermented so these minerals are easily digested which is a big job to accomplish because minerals come from rocks!!!

I just finished my first bottle and I am in LOVE with this product!!!!!  It reminds me of Hershey's chocolate syrup but it is a SUPERFOOD!! I use it like I would have used sugary syrups in the past before I couldn't tolerate sugar.  

This is what I've observed while consuming my first bottle.  I can think better.  I am so much happier.  I can WALK better!!  I am more organized.  I am soooo much STRONGER!!  My eyes are a little more clear and I am able to get my work done MUCH easier because my energy has increased!!  

This really is a superfood and I urge everyone to try it--especially if you have any nerve damage.  The only caution I have is not to take it late in the afternoon and definitely not in the evening.  The first time I did this, I was jabbering away AT MIDNIGHT and Robert was NOT impressed.  lol

I have the first real glimmer of hope that I will one day be able to say, "I HAD MS but now IT'S GONE!!"  Please listen to the video I shared above and order some Cocolasses today!!  

May God lead you to the health answers that you are needing too!!

 Dawn 

 PS. Cocolasses makes EVERYTHING taste better and it WORKS!!!


  

Sunday, March 3, 2024

Am I READY?

Hi everyone,

  You may recall us loosing our dog about a year ago.  When Beamer died, I was done with dogs.  What's the use of training a dog and then have him get hit by a car?

  I've been perfectly fine without a dog this past year as has my husband and son whom I live with.  HOWEVER, just now I saw that someone needs to find a home for their dog who is just the kind we'd like to have.  She's not far away and is free.  

  Then this question ran through my mind.  Are we ready for another dog?  Not sure of that answer, I went in search of some information to ponder.  This looks like a good place to start.  I share for anyone else who is pondering getting a dog. 

  Happy pondering,

  Dawn

Should I Get A Dog? How to Know If You're Ready For A Dog

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You say you want a dog every time you see a friendly Golden Retriever on the street. But are you actually prepared to bring one into your home?

As much as we love the idea of having a canine companion to love unconditionally, being a responsible dog owner is a lot of work. Before getting a dog, you’ll need to consider if you are ready to make the financial, schedule, and lifestyle commitments that adding a dog into your life will require. Here are some considerations to keep in mind before getting one.

How Much Time Can You Devote to Your Dog?

When thinking about adding a dog or puppy to your life, consider how much time you must devote to them—and if you can work that into your schedule. Regardless of breed, size, and age, every dog will need some amount of daily exercise and enrichment. Sporting dogsherding breedsterriersworking dogs, and other dogs with high energy levels will need more mental and physical enrichment daily than some other breeds of dogs. Taking this energy level into consideration is an important step to making sure the dog will fit into your lifestyle.

Additionally, heavy-coated dogs will require more regular grooming at home, as well as by a professional, which is both a time and financial commitment to consider. Make sure you can fit in this extra grooming time every week or so.

Before getting a dog, you’ll want to think about your daily schedule and overall availability. If you regularly work long hours, having a dog at home may not be fair to your pet. Similarly, if you travel extensively or plan to do so, you’ll want to think if your dog can join you or who will care for them while you are away.

Having dogs is a big daily time commitment, but also a long-term commitment. Before bringing a dog home make sure that you’re prepared to care for your dog for their lifetime, which could be over 15 years for some breeds.

Basenji breed dog sitting on carpet wooden floor at home. Top view
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How Much Will A Dog Cost?

While you don’t have to be made of money to have a pet, dogs are still a major expense. Before getting one, it’s important to consider if you are prepared financially to care for a dog. The initial cost of purchasing a dog is just the beginning. Additionally, you’ll need to factor in the cost of basic supplies, such as bowlsleashescollarstoysgrooming supplies, and more. Ongoing costs such as training classesfood, and treats should also be factored in, as well as replacing items as they are outgrown or worn out.

All dogs need regular veterinary visits. But responsible dog owners should also financially prepare for any injuries, sickness, or more advanced care. Depending on the breed and your own grooming abilities, you may need to pay for professional grooming. Note that, in general, large-breed dogs are typically more expensive because their supplies, food, grooming, and even prescription medications tend to be pricier compared to smaller dogs.

How Will A Dog Fit Into Your Lifestyle?

When you picture a dog in your life, you need to think about your family’s lifestyle—and future lifestyle. How do you spend your free time? For example, if you like to spend every weekend hiking, make sure you get a breed of dog that is going to have the drive, stamina, and physical structure to keep up with you. But if your idea of a perfect day is hanging out on the couch, be thoughtful before getting a dog with a lot of energy, rather than a breed known for being calm.

There are also unexpected changes that you’ll need to be prepared to adjust your dog to. Owners who brought home “pandemic puppies,” or whose dogs adjusted to them being home all the time, had to readjust their dogs and take a hard look at their own schedules when restrictions were lifted. Before bringing home a dog or puppy, think critically about what your normal routines look like and if there’s time to accommodate a dog’s needs.

If you have children or grandchildren who frequently visit your home or if you plan to have children in the future, you need to be able to continue to prioritize a dog while also taking care of kids. Also, make sure that everyone in your household is prepared to prioritize the needs of a dog and make any lifestyle adjustments necessary to provide for that dog’s health, safety, and enrichment.

West Highland White Terrier lying down indoors looking out a large window.
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Can You Be A Responsible Dog Owner?

It’s one thing to be a dog owner, but it’s another thing to be a responsible one. A responsible dog owner is someone who proactively plans for the needs of their dogs and ensures to the best of their ability that those needs are being met. It doesn’t mean having luxury items for your dog, but it does require being capable of providing your dog with everything they need. Dogs are dependent on their owners for everything from food to providing time and space to go to the bathroom and get enough stimulation and exercise.

Responsible dog owners make sure that if they are unable to care for their dogs themselves, they find or hire someone to care for them until they return home. Being a responsible owner also means making a commitment to training your dog so that your dog behaves well at home, in public, and around others.

How Will You Train Your Dog?

Dogs don’t come pre-programmed. Even the most laid-back dogs require regular training. To get them off on the right foot, train them using positive reinforcement methodologies to build a stronger bond with your dog. Training is a lifelong process for dogs and their owners, and while you don’t have to get to a competition level, all dogs should have basic training. At a minimum, dogs should be potty trained and learn basic manners, and regular training also can reduce conflict and frustration over caring for a dog.

There are multiple options for dog training, including doing it yourself at home, attending classes, or hiring a private trainer.

Is Your Home Fitted For A Dog?

Not all dogs require a large home with a fenced-in backyard, but some do, which is why your current living situation needs to be taken into account. Some dogs can thrive in a high-rise apartment in the middle of the city, whereas other dogs would be very stressed in that environment. A dog’s size isn’t the only factor to keep in mind. For example, though small, many terrier breeds are very active and would struggle with life in a cramped apartment, whereas some low-energy, larger breeds can do well, provided they get enough stimulation and enrichment.

When considering getting a dog, think about what kind of dog will be the best fit. Be patient and search for a dog who has the right energy level and temperament to be happy and comfortable in your home.

Bedlington Terrier puppy running in a field.
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Will You Choose The Right Dog For Your Life?

Finding the right dog to join your family isn’t as simple as picking a dog that you like the look of. When looking at prospective breeds, focus more on what this dog was bred to do, their energy level, what their grooming requirements are, and how their general temperament might (or might not) fit with your family.

Research your desired breed, and look into national breed clubs that can give prospective owners information about the breed. They can also connect you with regional breed clubs where you can meet dogs, as well as breeders. Most people are more than happy to talk with you about their dogs and what it’s like to live with the breed, which can help you get a sense of if they will be a good fit.

And once you decide you want to look for a puppy of your own, AKC Marketplace can connect you with a responsible breeder.

Can You Realistically Care For A Dog?

The idea of a dog or puppy sounds great, but the reality isn’t going to be practical. Not everyone is able to have a dog at every stage of their life.

Before bringing a dog home, be honest with yourself about if you are ready and able to give a dog everything they need. There is no shame in recognizing that you don’t have the schedule or financial security to care for a dog currently. Ultimately, having to rehome a dog you’re unable to care for may be more painful and stressful than not having one at all.

Being a responsible dog owner can be a lot of work. It often requires putting your dog’s needs first and making sure that you are providing your pet with the best possible life. Sometimes, that means changing your plans to do what’s best for your dog, but when the time is right and you find the right dog for your lifestyle, it’s all worth it.

 At AKC Marketplace, we can help you find your dream dog. You can find AKC-registerable puppies from responsible, passionate breeders, and we provide the tools you need for every step of the process. Visit marketplace.akc.org to start connecting with dog breeders in your area!

Related article: 75 Ways to Be a Responsible Dog Owner
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I Have THAT problem?????

  Recently I was asked to lead our neighborhood ladies' Bible study.  I prayed for over a week about what to share with the ladies and w...